i will come out, i am a victim. i have mental scars from people who would bully me because i had red hair. they would give me bruises and even a black eye once, and i have switched schools at least 5 times. ever since i could never really talk to people in public or anyone in general because i am afraid they will judge me. i thank you for posting this thread because it literally made my day. i am not trying to grab attention though but i am a foster child because my real parents abused me when i was really young, but i now have a very nice supporting family.