How to fight social awkwardeness / shyness

[Twee]

Easier said than done. Trust me.

 

[Wyz]

It is hard to get over it if you are shy or awkward in social life, that's happen to me a lot. See, a couple of years back i was really really hmm awkward and what i mean is, i do really awkward stuff. Either if it is on the bus or at school. But like once i got to 8th grade remember, i was shy and awkward in 6th and 7th grade. But any ways, once i got into 8th grade i was really really awkward and people were bullying me and stuff and now i am in highschool and i was shy freshman year but that was only because i didn't know any one until it was like the middle of the year where i meant everyone and stuff but in english class, I was soooo shy, i didn't talk to any one and when i did it was answering a question from the teacher or a kid in my class. And now i am a sophmore and honestly, i'm not shy or awkward any more and let me tell you how i got over it. After freshman year, i thought a lot about middle school - 9th grade and i realize that i got bullied because of my voice and how i was. So i decided to change. So, basically i started to be a lot nicer and not annoy people like i did before. It was a struggle but i did it. Hope you did enjoy this little story about myself haha, you guys know me better now.

There is a guy in our school who has been bullied six years now, and he was bullied because he was doing all sorts of stupid thing and annoying everyone on purpose. He quit it last autumn and isn't bullied anymore.

Nice try but I dont think this will help that much. Everyone is different and everyone will have their own ways of getting over this.

p.s. check your spelling next time.

Please, English is not my first language, I'm trying my best and I've noticed my grammar is better than many American or English people here. Plus, I write all my posts on mobile, that may affect it too.

And yes, I know everyone has their own ways to get over shyness, but however you do it, confidence is key, whether you get it over time or just like that, you need it.

I wish it was as easy as it appears on paper. Sadly, it's not. I've tried, and still am trying.
I joined a completely new school a week late, and one year into high school. Being socially awkward, three weeks later I have still not made a single friend, and I don't even have anyone to call an "acquaintance", except for my teachers and guidance counselors.
Tomorrow, I'm going to be starting a new schedule. Some of the same teachers, some different, but all different classes. New peers, new faces, and no one that I know.

Anyone can come online and give recommendations, but some people are just so deep into the pit of shyness or being a social outcast that they simply don't have the option of coming out of it. I wish I wasn't one of those people, but I am.

/rantover/

I don't have anymore hints for you guys, this worked for me but I guess not for anyone else. I tried, I failed.


Edit: I had to give one last hint to all of you who don't ghink this is gonna work. Uou can't wait for things to change. You can't wait for people to come to you and talk, no. If you want things to change, be the change. Your lige is based off of your actions. Your choice now, defines your whole life. Go talk to that boy, make friends with him, you will not regret it.


I know, easier said than done, shut up, this is true.