How do you deal with ugly break ups.

[flyon21]

Well, me and her had be going out for a couple years. Found out she was cheating on my with my best friend.

Well I thought, what should I do?

My other friend told me to do her best friend.

My mom told me to just move on.

My brother told me to find a hotter chick, cause he said the girl I was dating was fugly.



What would you do if you were in this situation

 

[Lululioness]

Go to the fridge and eat my feelings away.

 

[Claps]

Take your hand. Curl it into a fist. Repeatedly punch your "best friend" in the face.

 

[Theoretical]

Surround yourself with friends, and do hobbies your good at -- all about confidence. Don't think about all the good times you had with her, that just will make it hurt more. However, don't hate on her.

If she cheated on you, she's missing out. Have enough respect for yourself to realize she's the one that made the mistake here.

 

[FuSioN]

If she cheated on you, break up with here and move on because she's not worth your time. Find someone who respects you and that will make you happier in life.

Oh and I'd also have a nice conversation with your best friend as well

 

[Fnnythe3hd]

I don't know, I've never been in a relationship...

 

[¡Sam!]

Go to the fridge and eat my feelings away.

Thanks for adding some serious suggestions to this conversation.

 

[Lululioness]

Thanks for adding some serious suggestions to this conversation.

You're welcome.

No seriously, it helps. Food = life.

 

[¡Sam!]

You're welcome.

No seriously, it helps. Food = life.

-.-
He didn't ask how to get fat.

 

[shoottomaim]

I was in the exact same situation. And the worst thing is I knew about it decided to go along with it for a month and pretend I didn't know to see if it was true. Turns out it was.
After a month I couldn't take it anymore and just broke up with her. You have to understand, if you keep going on and stay in a relationship with her one day she is going to end it with you. And imagine if you end up hitting 30 and having a little baby boy. You're going to be thinking like Rick Grimes: "Is this my best friends' baby or my baby?".
How old are you? ~15? There are other girls in the world bro. Trust me, if there was a way I could avoid breaking up with my girlfriend I would have done it straight away, but it's inevitable. I was with my girlfriend for.. what, a year and a half? It killed me to break up with her, but I still did it because if you don't, the guilt is going to slowly kill you. Either you break up with her with some dignity or you let her break up and tell you that she's found another guy and that she's been with him for a long time.

tl;dr
Break up with her, she ain't worth it.

Now... for your best friend.

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But, in seriousness, you better slap your "best friend" and leave him in the dust, because he ain't worth it either. If he was truly your best friend he'd at least tell you before moving in for the "kill", if you know what I mean. Maybe invite him to your house and bust out your Nerf machinegun.

 

[¡Sam!]

I was in the exact same situation. And the worst thing is I knew about it decided to go along with it for a month and pretend I didn't know to see if it was true. Turns out it was.
After a month I couldn't take it anymore and just broke up with her. You have to understand, if you keep going on and stay in a relationship with her one day she is going to end it with you. And imagine if you end up hitting 30 and having a little baby boy. You're going to be thinking like Rick Grimes: "Is this my best friends' baby or my baby?".
How old are you? ~15? There are other girls in the world bro. Trust me, if there was a way I could avoid breaking up with my girlfriend I would have done it straight away, but it's inevitable. I was with my girlfriend for.. what, a year and a half? It killed me to break up with her, but I still did it because if you don't, the guilt is going to slowly kill you. Either you break up with her with some dignity or you let her break up and tell you that she's found another guy and that she's been with him for a long time.

tl;dr
Break up with her, she ain't worth it.

^^^^^

 

[Halo_0]

Never been in that situation... I guess I would just move on... Sounds pretty serious when you're with her for a couple of years. Longest for me is a school year. Very different... Good luck in the future!