Life

[Braden]

Life is strange. One moment you're on top of the world, the next you've hit rock bottom. It brings us many happy moments, such as love and family, as well as sad moments, such as pain and loss. Life is the reason we are all here reading this thread. Almost all elements of life are taken for granted.

As of recently, my grandpa has been admitted into the Critical Care Unit (CCU) after cardiac arrest which has made me realize that we take a lot for granted. I always counted on my grandpa and never really though of him being gone. Now, my reality has been shaken up and he's in the hospital with a little over a day to wake up. If he doesn't wake up by tomorrow night, the plug needs to be pulled.

I was really close to my grandpa and he was always a healthy guy, so I never thought he'd be in this situation so early in his life. My grandpa was always a good guy that would help anyone out that needed help. He was always a happy guy and you could never really tell if he was stressed or mad because he was always just so happy. He was a hard worker and never gave up on anything, especially his family. He was married to my grandma for 42 years and has raised three sons that went on to create a big family, and he never gave up on any of us. He always put his family first and that's what you should do in life. Overall, he was one of the best men to ever walk this earth.

What I wrote above made me realize that I've been taking my family always being there for granted. Not everyone has family to support them and be with them when they are growing up. Even for people that do have a dependable family, anything can change in a blink of the eye, just as it has with me. Family is the most important thing in life and I can't imagine what my life would be with out my family.

After reading this thread, I want you to take a second and go tell the people close to you and the people that love you, how much you love them and how glad you are to have them in your life. They may find it a bit peculiar but it will mean a lot to them. Telling someone you love them will not only brighten up their day, but it may be the last thing you ever say to someone.

"The lord gave and the lord has taken away." -Job 1:21
(Thanks to Giggums for reminding me of that verse)

Spoiler: A picture of my grandma and grandpa.

 

[Giggums]

I'm so proud of you for being able to turn a situation of sorrow into a basis for helping others. This is exactly what I was talking about by God using this situation to empower you. You can clearly see the amazing care you have for others and how well you can display that. Thank you for making this post. It has truly given me hope. I want so bad for you and your family to be happy. I know I sound like a broken record, but come to me any time you're in need. It's no bother. Thank you for being the person you are and using your hardships to influence peace and happiness in others. You are a very strong person.

 

[Giggity69Goo]

Great thread Braden. It takes lot's of courage to make a thread like this and to include a personal current story of your grandfather. As I said before, great thread!

 

[boboy1999]

That thread was very touching and personal. I hope your grandfather gets well. In hard times like this you need to stay strong. Family and friends are most important in tough situations like this, if you ever need anything or just want to talk I am here for you. Stay strong dude.

 

[BaccaBoy1999]

Damn, this makes me tear up. For anyone who didn't know, my grandparents were hit by drunk drivers, and I had to go through a similar situation of pulling the plug after a few days of them in a coma. They were in very bad condition, and the doctors said there was no chance of recovery. After that, I had to disconnect from life, I was angry, sad, and confused. Eventually I found this community, and it brought me back up. Don't take life for granted, since it really can change instantly.

Stay strong Braden, you can get through this. Talk to your school counselor, it helps trust me.

 

[Braden]

I'm so proud of you for being able to turn a situation of sorrow into a basis for helping others. This is exactly what I was talking about by God using this situation to empower you. You can clearly see the amazing care you have for others and how well you can display that. Thank you for making this post. It has truly given me hope. I want so bad for you and your family to be happy. I know I sound like a broken record, but come to me any time you're in need. It's no bother. Thank you for being the person you are and using your hardships to influence peace and happiness in others. You are a very strong person.

Thank you very much. I will be sure to contact you if I ever need anything. Your support has meant a lot.

Great thread Braden. It takes lot's of courage to make a thread like this and to include a personal current story of your grandfather. As I said before, great thread!

Thanks Andreas. It's nice to hear that from someone with a forum presence like yourself.

That thread was very touching and personal. I hope your grandfather gets well. In hard times like this you need to stay strong. Family and friends are most important in tough situations like this, if you ever need anything or just want to talk I am here for you. Stay strong dude.

I'll do my best during a time like this. Thank you for the support.

 

[YourAverageTiger]

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[Braden]

Damn, this makes me tear up. For anyone who didn't know, my grandparents were hit by drunk drivers, and I had to go through a similar situation of pulling the plug after a few days of them in a coma. They were in very bad condition, and the doctors said there was no chance of recovery. After that, I had to disconnect from life, I was angry, sad, and confused. Eventually I found this community, and it brought me back up. Don't take life for granted, since it really can change instantly.

Stay strong Braden, you can get through this. Talk to your school counselor, it helps trust me.

Thank you Nate, hearing this from you actually means a lot to me, whether you believe it or not. I'm sorry about your grandparents and it actually angers me that it was caused by drunk drivers. Anyways, you know how difficult of a time this is, so your advice is really appreciated. Thanks! <3

 

[Vigilo]

I know how you feel.

2 years ago, my grandpa left his house to stay at our house for the rest of his life. After 3 months, it went completely wrong and he died within 2 or 3 weeks.

 

[Freshly]

This is extremely touching, and I just want you to know that you have a lot, and I mean a lot, of people who care for you and are willing to speak to you in this community. Stay strong brother <3 Much love, Jay.

 

[Dzbs]

Wow it takes a lot of courage to make a great thread like this, as it has really touched me. I wish you the very best for your Grandpa, and hope he recovers very soon!

 

[Braden]

I know how you feel.

2 years ago, my grandpa left his house to stay at our house for the rest of his life. After 3 months, it went completely wrong and he died within 2 or 3 weeks.

That's a bummer. I'm sorry to hear about that. Grandpas are special people that are always there for you. Sorry to hear that.

This is extremely touching, and I just want you to know that you have a lot, and I mean a lot, of people who care for you and are willing to speak to you in this community. Stay strong brother <3 Much love, Jay.

Thank you, Jay. You're always there for me and I appreciate that. I'm very glad to be a part of such a caring community and staff team.

Wow it takes a lot of courage to make a great thread like this, as it has really touched me. I wish you the very best for your Grandpa, and hope he recovers very soon!

Thanks a lot for the kind words. The nurse told my family today that they don't think he will come out of it. I'm praying for a miracle but I'll be trying to prepare for the worst.