How to deal with Death?

[Myzah]

Hello,

Just this morning I was woken up by my mom. She told me something very bad happened, I didn't know what so I kept asking. A few minutes later she told me that my uncle died. I was very close to my uncle, and as a matter of fact I was staying with him in this house. My Grandparents (his parents) were with us as well to celebrate Christmas. See, right after she told me that he died I pretty much just started crying. He was 50 years old. He had the flu and he also had diabetes. Through the night the flu and diabetes intercepted some how. My Grandma went to check on him and it looked like he wasn't breathing they called the ambulance and they showed up did tests and he passed away, he wasn't in any pain, which is good.

I have never experienced death before I don't know what to do Im just depressed.

Love, Myzah.

 

[JaviGBU]

Just try to be happy. Do things that you like to do For example Play MCSG , meet with your friends and things like that !

 

[SuperMCSam]

What Javi said. ;-; Death can be hard to handle. Try talking to some of your closest friends and DO NOT hide feelings. Sorry for your loss ;-;

 

[GOFORGOLDCROZ]

My condolences go to your family, and what everyone else has said, just do what you like doing. Don't let it get to your mind. I'm sure he lived a good life.

 

[TheWolfMaster]

feels-
Ouch, i've never experienced death, but i bet it feels terrible. Don't think about it too much, he's resting now by him self, happily, and he would want you to grow up to have a great, happy life. Just go with your life, and i'm sorry for your loss.

 

[Vanicle | Vanessa]

Everyone handles death differently. Do what you enjoy and whatever makes you feel even slightly better - whether that's staying by yourself listening to music, reminiscing, hanging out with friends, playing on the computer. The only thing I can say that truly makes the pain go away is time.

I'm really sorry for your loss especially so close to the holidays. I hope you find some good ways to comfort yourself through this thread.

 

[Myzah]

Everyone handles death differently. Do what you enjoy and whatever makes you feel even slightly better - whether that's staying by yourself listening to music, reminiscing, hanging out with friends, playing on the computer. The only thing I can say that truly makes the pain go away is time.

I'm really sorry for your loss especially so close to the holidays. I hope you find some good ways to comfort yourself through this thread.

Thanks so much.

feels-
Ouch, i've never experienced death, but i bet it feels terrible. Don't think about it too much, he's resting now by him self, happily, and he would want you to grow up to have a great, happy life. Just go with your life, and i'm sorry for your loss.

Thanks it really helps to know what to do.

Also Thanks to everyone who posted Thanks for the kind words.

 

[Scott]

Death is a very sad and depressing topic, but it is something that happens to everyone. Personally, I have never experienced a family member's death. If someone close to me were to die, I would most likely be upset, and I would probably cry for a long time; however, I would think about the things that this person accomplished in life, and that he or she is in a better place. That way I could know that, even though they are no longer on Earth, the things they accomplished have somehow affected the world in a better way. Also, considering I am Christian and most of my family members are Christian, I would remember that they're in Heaven--and that I will someday be with them again. I hope this helped, and I wish you a Merry Christmas! You're in my prayers. <3

 

[Myzah]

Death is a very sad and depressing topic, but it is something that happens to everyone. Personally, I have never experienced a family member's death. If someone close to me were to die, I would most likely be upset, and I would probably cry for a long time; however, I would think about the things that this person accomplished in life, and that he or she is in a better place. That way I could know that, even though they are no longer on Earth, the things they accomplished have somehow affected the world in a better way. Also, considering I am Christian and most of my family members are Christian, I would remember that they're in Heaven--and that I will someday be with them again. I hope this helped, and I wish you a Merry Christmas! You're in my prayers. <3

Thanks, it really helps to know that.

 

[Holiday]

I'm truly sorry for your loss... It must be even harder for you since you were very close to him, too. Just remember that this is life and it will always be full of surprises, whether we like them or not. We just have to carry on with our lives and remind ourselves to not mourn over past events. If you ever need someone to talk to on here, you can always talk to me or another moderator through the TeamSpeak.

 

[krazylegz254]

I too experienced an uncles death just a few years ago, the only thing I can tell you to do is to not hide your feelings and to not be mad at someone for the death. Just know he's in a better place and that he loved you.

 

[Mooclan]

If he had died in pain, which he didn't, it's possible that he left you before his time. But he passed onto the next stage of existence in a peaceful manner, which can help you to conclude that it was his time, and he fulfilled his purpose in life.