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MCGamerzism

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I know about your situation. You need to somehow get it of your chest. When your crying or sad, just smile. Punch something. Ik when I get bullied at school, I just act like b*tch and a ratchet and get all fierce with people and act like I don't give a single f*ck. It helps me, it's not everyone's thing though. Even making a video or writing it down will help you. You need to let someone know. Therapists are extremely good, they are so professional and good at there job. Whatever you do don't commit suicide. You going to make your family feel even worse, you probably will have guilty ness while your in heaven as well. Your not the only one
  • Listen to music
  • Take your anger out on someone
  • Tell someone or something
Call me babe if you need me, this won't be forever, don't say why me say try me. Death is a good thing :) sometimes....
 

PandaDoesPvPxD

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I know about your situation. You need to somehow get it of your chest. When your crying or sad, just smile. Punch something. Ik when I get bullied at school, I just act like b*tch and a ratchet and get all fierce with people and act like I don't give a single f*ck. It helps me, it's not everyone's thing though. Even making a video or writing it down will help you. You need to let someone know. Therapists are extremely good, they are so professional and good at there job. Whatever you do don't commit suicide. You going to make your family feel even worse, you probably will have guilty ness while your in heaven as well. Your not the only one
  • Listen to music
  • Take your anger out on someone
  • Tell someone or something
Call me babe if you need me, this won't be forever, don't say why me say try me. Death is a good thing :) sometimes....
Thanks gizm <3 I wouldn't have made this thread without you. You really have helped so much. Maybe even changed my life. Thank you.
 

Sean

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I know times may be tough for you but remember you only get one life why waste it looking at the negatives. I know it is hard to ignore them but you must look at the positives in life. Also if you are have thoughts such as these you must talk to someone as life is precious. I will leave you with a nice quote that has helped me a few times.

"when you hit rock bottom there is nowhere to go but up"

If you ever need someone to talk to even for the slightest thing do not hesitate in contacting me :) Stay strong and remember life will always get better.
 

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I love this community for this reason. As many said before me, talk to a trusted adult or a counselor that you know and trust to help you through this. Stay strong, my friend. :)
 

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I will keep you in my prayers. If you would like to talk to an expert go to remedylive.com . If you want to talk to me, I would love to talk to you on TeamSpeak. You seem like a really nice guy to talk to. Remember that those in life who want to put you down are jealous of you.
 

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Life goes on, trust me. Regarding the bullying, don't let anyone tell you or make you feel less of a person than you are. You are a unique person and deserve to be treated as so. As for things that can help you with depression, here goes:
Remember that bullies rarely get far in life
Death is a part of life but try to look at it as "One door closes, another door opens"
There will always be people that love you in your life

If I was religious I would pray for you but I will definitely be hoping for the best for you. If you ever need to talk to anyone about anything feel free to talk to me. I will drop whatever I am doing and come talk to you. ^o^

Here is a compilation of cat videos to cheer you up:
 

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First of all, I was thinking of this song a several times these past two weeks, and coincidentally I just thought of it again and started listening to it right before finding this thread.
(Bad Day - Daniel Powter)

And I have no idea what has or has not already been said because I didn't end up reading through all of the posts, but I'm sure they're all good because I skimmed. Anyways, to the point.

Would you rather live on Earth, or be dead and in Hell?
I don't know if you're religious, but if you are.. killing yourself still counts as killing a fellow human being in my book, and it's a sin. Basically, it's bad. Don't do it. I'm not too good at this emotional therapy stuff but you get what I mean.
I've been there. Four times, in fact. Suicide may seem like an easy way out, but it's not.
Think for a moment. Just think. Sit down, grab a coffee from Starbucks, put on your favorite Uggs or something, and think. What do you have to live for? Ignore the bad parts. Don't count the bad parts, stick to the blessings in your life. You were popular, right? What got you popular? Was it your looks, your personality? You're not ugly, and I highly doubt you suddenly got as boring as a blank sheet of paper. (Believe me, I am the definition of both of those.) Do you think you might be able to request a school transfer? Maybe new classes?
Talk through it. At night, stare up at your ceiling and talk to yourself about what's been going on. You may cry about it, you may get sad. But keep digging... searching... and eventually you'll be able to come to terms with what's going on.

I don't know how sadistic you are, but some people take pleasure in bringing harm and/or misfortune to those that dislike.
If you're one of those people, try reporting your bullies. Take anonymous evidence and bring it to the authorities. They won't be able to punish you for recording or something if they can't prove it's you who did it, but you can get people in huuuuge trouble c;

If you ever get tempted to, erm, cut, use a substitute. Rubber bands on the wrist are a sure-fire way to inflict a safe but smarting type of pain. It also helps me keep awake if I'm falling asleep. (Or rather, did. I don't do it anymore.)
Also, cutting is not a solution. It's not going to help you, and it's not going to help anyone else. All you're doing is letting the bullies win. Do you want them to win! No!

okay im getting the evil eye from my mom ;( Gotta stop writing.
 

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Life is important. You only get one, Kid.
Suicide is what I like to call a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I noticed that you're fifteen, and just wanted to say, that until I left secondary school at sixteen, I was feeling pretty similar. My time in school was basically a friendless five years of bullying, from the students, and even one of the teachers.
As soon as I started College, things changed. I don't know where you're from, but if It's the States, I imagine that it's similar in the sense that once you leave middle school, (I think that's the equivalent), you should end up with more like-minded people, which could find you some real friends.
 

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Thank you, everyone for these comments. I am a religious person, but I guess I have been drawn away In recent events. These words really have helped. And they genuinely have changed the course of my life. Thank you <3
 

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I know it’s hard to see this right now, but it’s only temporary… Things will change. You won’t feel this way forever. Look to that day.
If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough.

When we are sad or depressed, we often forget the small treasures in life, the treasures that makes us happy :) Start focus on things that makes you happy and leave everything else alone :3
I really believe that all of us have a lot of darkness in our souls. Anger, rage, fear, sadness. I don't think that's only reserved for people who have horrible upbringings. I think it really exists and is part of the human condition. I think in the course of your life you figure out ways to deal with that. Sometimes it's hard, but I found my happy place,
ice cream and Disney movies :3

If you ever need to talk, I'll always be here, you can catch me on ts. I know It might sound a like "Thats what everyone says" But you might find it helpful talking to me :3 Have a nice day dear <3
 

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