Death Advice and More.

[Ceroria]

That's really a touching story. I have a general soft spot for animals as well, so that is kind of heartbreaking to hear. Just keep yourself happy. If it's a personal relation that has passed, know that somewhere they are watching you, from Heaven, (or wherever depending on what you believe in ). Just live life, remember them as they'd like to be remembered and know that one day you will see them again.

 

[Jimmy | Intelligent]

Everyone and Cscoop knows that dogs are better.

Death doesn't bother me that much. If I were to drop dead this instant, aside from still not having found a wife, I'd have no regrets. If a loved one were to drop dead this instant, I'd assume they'd gone to heaven since they're all better people than me, keep the sadness in, and let it dissipate inside over the next few months.

 

[AlgerWaterlow]

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The lesson I took away from that photo: when you get a tattoo, never misspell the word....

 

[MCGamerzism]

That's really a touching story. I have a general soft spot for animals as well, so that is kind of heartbreaking to hear. Just keep yourself happy. If it's a personal relation that has passed, know that somewhere they are watching you, from Heaven, (or wherever depending on what you believe in ). Just live life, remember them as they'd like to be remembered and know that one day you will see them again.

The thing is everyone will die eventually, but life (I believe) is about meeting people, sharing feelings, memories, laughter and just enjoying the experiences you'll have.
I'm atheist, but I don't care what people believe in. As long as they are not living in suppression and enjoy what they do and believe in, I'm happy for them.
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If anyone has any life problems and they don't have anyone to talk to about, please don't hesitate to contact me about your problems. It will remain a secret, I won't judge, and simply give you my opinion, and advice. I have had a lot of tough times in my life, and I wish someone was there for me. That's why I'll be there for you, or anyone else.

Thank you guys such kind hearted people ^_^

 

[MCGamerzism]

Honestly, death scares me so much because I don't know what happens. Just having the life in you completely gone and to never be able to get it back makes me nervous and scared.

The best way to get over a death is to understand that your time with that person is over. While you do have memories of being with the person, it's best not to let those memories consume you. Find ways to keep your thoughts off any sad memories. Video games, writing, reading, exercising. Whatever helps you think positively. And lastly, remember that crying is always alright. Crying is a good way to vent negative emotions.

Take it out on the internet. Turn off your chat, get in-game, and just slash away at players like there's no tomorrow. Because there really might not be. (jk)
But really, I find hardcore gaming to be a great stress-reliever. Unfortunately, most of my stress comes from times when I'm not on the internet..

Again, thank you from the advice and kind words your such good people

 

[Qwackey]

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That was one of the best scenes in that whole movie, and thats saying a lot considering the whole movie was amazing XD

 

[Mamiamato24]

I'd start writing a long paragraph articulating death and so on, but I've drawn a blank. I'm the type of person that really accentuates and dwells upon the smallest things, and I don't know how I've made it this far in life without a mental breakdown of some sort. I just think about the fact that whenever someone dies, they've fulfilled their purpose in life, and whatever happens to their body (I'm not really into that whole "sent to Heaven" sort of thing), that they'll be in a state of comfort. I've had a few deaths in my family since my birth, including my father's parents and grandparents, as well as my grandmother on my mother's side, and I think I've coped with their deaths quite well, by doing what I like, getting assistance, advice and insight from friends, and even playing some MCSG once in a while. Whenever I let something get to me, I try my best to distract myself from whatever it is. If that doesn't succeed, I would seek advice from friends and family. After all, we're not alone in this world...and sometimes we just need some help from others to resolve our own problems

What happened to not writing a long paragraph?

 

[MCGamerzism]

I'd start writing a long paragraph articulating death and so on, but I've drawn a blank. I'm the type of person that really accentuates and dwells upon the smallest things, and I don't know how I've made it this far in life without a mental breakdown of some sort. I just think about the fact that whenever someone dies, they've fulfilled their purpose in life, and whatever happens to their body (I'm not really into that whole "sent to Heaven" sort of thing), that they'll be in a state of comfort. I've had a few deaths in my family since my birth, including my father's parents and grandparents, as well as my grandmother on my mother's side, and I think I've coped with their deaths quite well, by doing what I like, getting assistance, advice and insight from friends, and even playing some MCSG once in a while. Whenever I let something get to me, I try my best to distract myself from whatever it is. If that doesn't succeed, I would seek advice from friends and family. After all, we're not alone in this world...and sometimes we just need some help from others to resolve our own problems

What happened to not writing a long paragraph?

;_; thank you, it's just harder on how it's gonna play out, and especially because nothing like that has happened to mex, apart from my brothers guineapig :/

 

[BritishShoop]

Everyone and Cscoop knows that dogs are better.

Death doesn't bother me that much. If I were to drop dead this instant, aside from still not having found a wife, I'd have no regrets. If a loved one were to drop dead this instant, I'd assume they'd gone to heaven since they're all better people than me, keep the sadness in, and let it dissipate inside over the next few months.

It's a good way to look at life.
There are too many people who are afraid of dying, of not doing everything they wanted to do.
I just say, rather than thinking about what you HAVEN'T done, think about what you HAVE done.

 

[Crackling]

Talk. This is seriously one of the most important and helpful things you can do to get you through the hard times. Talk to anyone, close friends, family, neighbours, teachers, people of the internet, people who might not even know what has happened. I have personally lost someone who has been very, very close to me, and talking has probably been what made me get to the point where I realised that it is time to move on. Don't be afraid to talk, I have never talked to anyone who has simply not cared, we are all humans after all, and most of us find death just as creepy and sad.

 

[Chiller4]

When my grandparents died, I found that the best method of coping was just alone time, doing what is fun to you. Do something that takes your mind off of it, and when you are done, you will come to realize that death is a part of life that no one can escape. It's a completely natural thing, and nothing to be scared about. Just think that when these people that you love die, they are moving on to a better place. Also, things like reading and exercising can help to take our mind off of your lost loved ones. Hope this helped c:

 

[MCGamerzism]

Talk. This is seriously one of the most important and helpful things you can do to get you through the hard times. Talk to anyone, close friends, family, neighbours, teachers, people of the internet, people who might not even know what has happened. I have personally lost someone who has been very, very close to me, and talking has probably been what made me get to the point where I realised that it is time to move on. Don't be afraid to talk, I have never talked to anyone who has simply not cared, we are all humans after all, and most of us find death just as creepy and sad.

When my grandparents died, I found that the best method of coping was just alone time, doing what is fun to you. Do something that takes your mind off of it, and when you are done, you will come to realize that death is a part of life that no one can escape. It's a completely natural thing, and nothing to be scared about. Just think that when these people that you love die, they are moving on to a better place. Also, things like reading and exercising can help to take our mind off of your lost loved ones. Hope this helped c:

This does mean a lot Chiller4, That video actually taught me a lot. Thank You, I'm less worried day by day because of replies from this thread