Moral Support and Getting Help- Discussing Events of Late

[Jon | Lqzer]

A lot of us know about the whole situation with Ender_Harold 's apparent suicide. On Friday morning, his brother came on the forums on his account and posted a leaving thread stating that his brother (Ender) had committed suicide the night before. Almost everybody posted comments saying they were sorry to hear that he had died, and that they felt really bad and wished they could have done something. However, some doubted that he had actually died and uncovered the real truth-

I, personally, am relieved to hear that Ender_Harold is still alive and wish him nothing but the best. Unfortunately, many will hate and despise him for joking about very serious matters. I am begging you, please do not be one of those people.

If someone posted about a death, whether you think it's real or not, please don't share negative thoughts about it. It could make the person fell a whole lot worse. Those suffering from depression and other illnesses may not be in the right state of mind. In situations like these, people shouldn't be hated: instead, they should be helped and forgiven.

Depression is a very serious matter. If you are suffering from it, please talk to someone about it. We are all very receptive on the MCSG forums and are here to help others in need. I know that many people out there are suffering from similar things. Do not be afraid to talk to someone: it will only help you. We will always be here for you. If anyone would like to talk to me for moral support/guidance, contact me on skype (captainjsfx).

Remember, no problems that you may have are ever worth taking your own life just to avoid. There are many other solutions. Even if you have just slight depression, I strongly advise you to talk to someone, and they'll help. It may just change your life!

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Also, just adding another thing I thought about. If you have family problems or are being abused, please do not hide what is happening. Go to authorities and they will help you.

If you feel as though you aren't loved, remember that we are your friends and family, and we are here for you to turn here. Even if your life isn't the greatest, God loves each and every one of you and has a plan for your life, even if you don't know it.

-Captain
I have personally known many people that have experienced from depression and anxiety. Things will get better, I promise.

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[Educating_]

Also doesn't help that people were going all CSI on the whole thing (checking when he last posted, etc.) If someone posted about a death, whether you think it's real or not, please don't share negative thoughts about it. Could make the person fell a whole lot worse.

 

[Claps]

I don't hate him for it, but I asked him a simple question and he started cursing at me and calling me a terrible person and then deleted my post when i asked why he'd done that... But he was just depressed and wanted attention, it's understandable and shouldn't be hated on, he should be forgiven.

 

[Jon | Lqzer]

Also doesn't help that people were going all CSI on the whole thing (checking when he last posted, etc.) If someone posted about a death, whether you think it's real or not, please don't share negative thoughts about it. Could make the person fell a whole lot worse.

I don't hate him for it, but I asked him a simple question and he started cursing at me and calling me a terrible person and then deleted my post when i asked why he'd done that... But he was just depressed and wanted attention, it's understandable and shouldn't be hated on, he should be forgiven.

Both of you are spot on. I'm sure he didn't mean to start anything and really feels bad that he did now. He isn't in the right state of mind.

 

[Pixelatorx2]

I forgive him, as he is still going through tough times. Either way, he shouldnt try and do this.. It really got me upset, because I hate it when people commit suicide. I forgive you Ender_Harold but please, dont do that stunt again.

 

[Jon | Lqzer]

I forgive him, as he is still going through tough times. Either way, he shouldnt try and do this.. It really got me upset, because I hate it when people commit suicide. I forgive you Ender_Harold but please, dont do that stunt again.

The most important thing to do is reach out a hand and give your support.

 

[IxLegendz]

I don't hate him? He just brought a lot of attention to himself and it's really stupid that he faked it!

 

[Jon | Lqzer]

I don't hate him? He just brought a lot of attention to himself and it's really stupid that he faked it!

I don't think your understanding. If you are suffering from depression or aren't loved and need attention, you might pull a stunt like this to feel like people care about you. By faking his death and creating a thread, he saw that people actually care about him. However, I do agree that there are other ways to deal with things besides faking your death.

 

[BlitzCometITU]

I was thinking this, I want to be mad at him, but that will just worsen his depression.

 

[Claps]

I was thinking this, I want to be mad at him, but that will just worsen his depression.

I mean, he's going through some rough times. It happens to all of us at some point. He tried handling this situation in an extreme way, and is now getting hated for that. He's just a depressed person who made a mistake and deserves forgiveness.

 

[Jon | Lqzer]

I was thinking this, I want to be mad at him, but that will just worsen his depression.

Forgiveness is the best healer.

 

[BlazeMaster]

Sorry for being late but I was just informed about this. So was he joking? Was it his brother? Is he really suicidal?