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Valiour

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Hi, I`m Valiour.

This thread is about bullies as you can see from the title.
My opinions about bullies: Cowards, Anger problems and they think they are better than you.

The moment when you are getting bullied... You don`t know what to do as you are thinking too fast- should I shout?, should I fight back?
They feel that they want to crush you in pieces, maybe because they are jealous of something about you, easily angered, in a bad mood, feel like you disturbed the bully way too much and maybe you accidentally stepped on his shoe.
They would push you, punch you or kick you. Some might even do those stuff in front of your classmates.
You would feel embarrassed if you are getting bullied.

How I dealt with them:

I was bullied in my younger days.
He always wanted revenge as during kindergarten, I complained to my teacher that he was annoying. And he had to stand outside of the classroom the whole day.
Once we grew older, we got in the same class. He would always give me the angry look.
Once, I was playing soccer during Physical Education with my classmates, when I kicked the ball away from him when he is dribbling, he came up to me and tackled me down. I was baffled when he did that as I did know know why he had done such a thing. He kept pushing me and I said said one word- 'trains' (lol)
I laughed loudly after I said that. He immediately walked away. After school that day, he came back to me and apologised. He asked me why did not I feel angry.
I told him one word, 'mercy.'
We became friends since then. This happened when I was around grade 3, when he came into my class.
We always laughed since then.
Try to make friends with the bully.
Show them a bit of mercy, as they have anger problems.
It is also the best way if you don`t want to tell your parents to get embarrassed.
Well, another way is to tell your parents (the good old anti-bully strats)
My life is way more worse with family problems, and getting bullied at school.
Just think of those people who have a terrible life like mine and a million others.
Life is the hardest thing is the world.
And we have came a long way, do not fall.
If you feel like jumping down the building, stabbing yourself or ...
Just force yourself to say NO to yourself.
This is life, and you would not be happy in it. Think of something positive, or just let it all out.
After all, tears are words that heart can`t say. Once you pass the challenges, you would feel as happy as a clam.
My quote to bullies out there: Do not under-estimate anyone.
If you have any problems, talk to meh :D
-Valiour
And no, I ain`t getting attention. Just read the post.

 

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The best thing to do is to avoid them when it's possible. If you're forced to confront them, the best thing to do is make sure that they don't get the reaction out of you that they want. Eventually they'll move on, or realize that their efforts in bullying others are useless.
 

Valiour

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The best thing to do is to avoid them when it's possible. If you're forced to confront them, the best thing to do is make sure that they don't get the reaction out of you that they want. Eventually they'll move on, or realize that their efforts in bullying others are useless.
Well, in my country, we have to stay in the same class for 5 years, so I can`t really avoid them :(
Good opinion though :D
 

FlawlessDuck

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Eh it's quite situational, there is no one "set way" to handle bullies. I think a good idea would be just to build up a big group of friends so the bully thinks twice before doing anything to you. Even if you don't have a huge amount of friends just be nice to everybody and people will be unhappy with the bully if they attack you!
 

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This thread is lovely, it goes over what to do when you are being bullied and how to come about with it. To help aid the discussion, I will just add a little story of mine:

So, as many know, I live in Saudi Arabia. Everytime I would log on the MCGamer TS, I would be constantly harassed and abused. People would insult me, call me a terrorist, etc..

Banning them did not make it any better. They kept on coming back on VPNs and evading and continuing. At that point I had enough, so I decided to use a VPN to escape from it all. I began making a new "identity" for myself. I changed my IGN and all.

That was all a few days ago. Yesterday, Vigilo told me words I will never forget. He changed my view on it all. But no, it was not just him. It was:
Jodimo
NagolGames
TheMangoTiger
Exzone
Axanite
AGFire2013
StephanieMarie
KellieBreanne

Jazza
Here is what Vigilo said:

"You do not need to change anything about you for anyone else. If you do, that gives them the impression that they won. This is not what you want to do. You need to just be yourself, and deal with them appropriately, and ignore them."
- Vigilo


That basically wraps it up. I was close to quitting and these guys brought me back. I could never repay them for what they did.

Moral of the story? Beat bullies by not giving them what they want. The pleasure of winning.
 
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Valiour

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Guys, just tell me how you dealt with them. M0st of us have our own solution to bullies :D
 

YourAverageTiger

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Guys, just tell me how you dealt with them. M0st of us have our own solution to bullies :D
This thread is lovely, it goes over what to do when you are being bullied and how to come about with it. To help aid the discussion, I will just add a little story of mine:

So, as many know, I live in Saudi Arabia. Everytime I would log on the MCGamer TS, I would be constantly harassed and abused. People would insult me, call me a terrorist, etc..

Banning them did not make it any better. They kept on coming back on VPNs and evading and continuing. At that point I had enough, so I decided to use a VPN to escape from it all. I began making a new "identity" for myself. I changed my IGN and all.

That was all a few days ago. Yesterday, Vigilo told me words I will never forget. He changed my view on it all. But no, it was not just him. It was:
Jodimo
NagolGames
TheMangoTiger
Exzone
Axanite
AGFire2013
StephanieMarie
KellieBreanne
Here is what Vigilo said:


"You do not need to change anything about you for anyone else. If you do, that gives them the impression that they won. This is not what you want to do. You need to just be yourself, and deal with them appropriately, and ignore them."
- Vigilo


That basically wraps it up. I was close to quitting and these guys brought me back. I could never repay them for what they did.

Moral of the story? Beat bullies by not giving them what they want. The pleasure of winning.
 

FlawlessDuck

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Well bullying is a continuous thing so I just stopped it before it became a continuous thing. Although I don't really recommend this to be honest as it meant I actually fought the bully, which luckily I am 6ft and do boxing so it worked, but for a lot of people this could just make it worse..
 

Valiour

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Wow, I would feel very sad if someone said that remarks to me.
Now that is why there is always hope.
Some people out there cares and loves you and some hates you.
 

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