I'm honestly grateful that you have posted this thread, OhFancy. It's as if you have given me a voice in that matter, because the competitiveness in the forums could bring a lot of trouble when taken too far. It is certainly something I am glad about, you understanding the situations I have been in when it came to such circumstances. I would also like to add on that people also urge others to follow them. The evidence I will provide will speak for itself:
Oh, someone gave me a link:
This evidence is to show that the over-competitiveness in MCGamer has also caused people to become far too cautious of their social status, furthermore, their followers. I have seen plenty of other individuals who have experienced similar situations like I have. And it generally is not a pleasant experience having someone asking you to follow them. And the individual I am, I feel as if I do not follow them, I would begin considering myself as some sort of rude person. Furthermore, as shown from the evidence I have provided, the asking for a follow was also done by "guilt-tripping" me.
A long time ago, a thread had been posted about human emotions. This resulted in me, and another amazing user known as 'BitoBain', have a wonderful discussion about the negative, and most dangerous kinds of human emotions. This concluded in us agreeing upon that one thing is for certain. Pride is one of the essential roots of many different negative emotions, such as Envy, greed, or even wrath. Therefore, people take too much pride when it comes to gaining followers, likes, and messages. And they take to such extents where they must ask to be followed. I have additionally heard rumors of individuals taking time out of their way to make alternative accounts to follow themselves in the forums. Despite the fact that I cannot be certain about such matters, if, hypothetically speaking, this were to be true. Then it would further justify the topic of this thread.
And I do completely understand, that people will wish to increase their likes, post counts, and followers. And I have no judgement to make for that, because it is entirely their choice to what they intend to do in the forums. And by any means, carry on. However, if one takes it to the extent where they would have to urge others to boost their popularity, like asking to be followed, or urging others to look at someone's post and like it. Then that's where the issue is. And with urging people to follow others, we must give the privilege to others to decide on whether or not they should follow someone. It is the individual's own profile, henceforth giving them the choice to decide on whom they get to follow, and nobody else.
There is nothing wrong with doing what you want to do in the forums, but we must not forget what is most necessary when being part of the forums community. It is that we discuss matters that involve the development of MCGamer, keep up with the latest news of MCGamer, and most of all, making friends. Not fans. <3