School tales!

[Nirmit|NirmitPlays]

Hi,

So lets get into the story. This was last year 2014 as school was starting. My RL friends dad died. Tragic right. Well that point of time he completely changed he started making fun of my mum. Which you can see as a joke I will explain it later. Then he started making fun of my other friends. Alright the first sign.​

We were playing a competitive game of rugby full tackle without mouth guards. The guy called me a N**** and then me and my other friend ignore him. Until he calls us a p******s then they jump on my other friend then It get serious. It turns in a war zone. Not really. But it was 1v1 1v1 and 1v1 it was crazy. So then that's over. We instantly report it for being racist. Then the schools make it fair. Yes he was going through a though period but no way should he be racist. So we sit for 60 minutes and it comes to say we have one day detention. Anyway the fight didn't end and no one won.

Name calling
So I skipped the small fights that we have a the main event so for the past couple of weeks he has been mocking me that he will have sex with my mum. They might be jokes but to a limit I decide to ignore him. Saying control on the anger. Then that day.... So it was the last day of school for the term. I was dressed as Don Bradman for a school project and I had a bat. So that day was the day he hit us with a bunch of rocks that hit one in the eye and one in the temple. Then that was it. Me and my friend with a cricket bat just went at them. So they went out crying and when the came back they called my mum a shemale and that was it for that. I dropped my cricket bat and fought him fight to fight.. He cried so much. Then there was sports i was out of my mood and completely angry then I was told that I was going to go to a head of a grade. Well we all got a warning and had to sign a contract which we didn't sign btw.
so yeah
I go to a highly respected school. It was just that they did a lot to us and the teachers weren't helping we did a wrong thing with fighting back.​

 

[I_love_desk]

Until he calls us a puss*ies

nearly

 

[OGLad_]

ouch

 

[ExtremeApples]

did you finish him?

 

[MaximMine]

nearly

hi clan leader

 

[Nirmit|NirmitPlays]

did you finish him?

Let's just say he cried..

 

[ExtremeApples]

Let's just say he cried..

10 hearts?

 

[Nirmit|NirmitPlays]

10 hearts?

Up

 

[Miner9823]

To be entirely honest, what you have done to him was considerably the most righteous thing you could do if it were a situation like that. The choices of your actions are quite controversial, it is not the best decision to begin a fight like that with another student, and it generally breaks the etiquette. But it was self defense.
His consequences have reflected upon his decisions. I can already tell that the horrific change of attitude was derived towards the trauma of coping with losing someone to look up to. And it is understandable that his loss are what caused him to change to such attitude.

However, he should have taken a different approach towards coping with such a situation like that, losing a loved one does not give anybody the privilege to hurt other people, and use their loss as an excuse for their actions. Instead, he should have looked for support, and aid. He should have opened up for himself so he could be helped, to let people be with him in coping with his loss.

It is probably a normal psychological standard towards coping with something like that, as I do recall, it is considered "Anger displacement". Although this is not an accurate definition towards his coping with such losses, it could most probably mean that he was frustrated with such losses, and in a manner, had probably wanted others to feel what he was going through by abusing others. Although his approach was not the best one, that is how he hoped to get pity. But what he had done, unfortunately, was push all those who trusted and cared for him away from him. Isolating himself in his own copings of such a loss. He had declined the support he was offered.

But due to the fact that he had physically, and psychologically abused others, he had lost his supposed reputation towards other people who cared for him. Thus causing him to be fought back against when he had decided to take it too far on others. His actions had caused you to snap and to finally show what would happen if people would abuse others. It generally was not you who was at fault at the incident, due to the fact that he had taken it too far, and began mentioning your family members over a situation he was in.

He had lost a sense of morality, he had lost his empathy of others, since he was at a very low point of his life. It was not his fault that he was in the middle of a situation that he was not in control of. But he had no right whatsoever to approach it in a manner to which will lead to more harm in people. Instead of fixing the issue, and try his best to move on and be more accepting, and as well as try to carry on an honorable legacy of his father by focusing on his studies, and being kind to others, he instead simply abused others, he left a bigger hole than what was created.

However, when you have done your justice, or when you have beaten him, it was best to instead try to make an approach to which could have helped him. It would have been best to instead of ignoring him, you could have tried to help him cope with it. It was best to be by his side, rather than ignoring him or beating him like that. And at no point whatsoever do I think it is righteous to say this story on the internet like that. It would show that you had an attitude to him similar to the attitude he had to you. But you have done what you could to teach him the manners of courtesy, there was nothing else you could have done. :c

Also, I don't recall schools being animals and consisting of tails. But I do know that a lot of stories, or should I say, "Tales" have occurred in schools all over the world. ;3

 

[powdski]

To be entirely honest, what you have don to him was considerably the most righteous thing you could do if it were a situation like that. The choices of your actions are quite controversial, it is not the best decision to begin a fight like that with another student, and it generally breaks the etiquette. But it was self defense.
His consequences have reflected upon his decisions. I can already tell that the horrific change of attitude was derived towards the trauma of coping with losing someone to look up to. And it is understandable that his loss are what caused him to change to such attitude.

However, he should have taken a different approach towards coping with such a situation like that, losing a loved one does not give anybody the privilege to hurt other people, and use their loss as an excuse for their actions. Instead, he should have looked for support, and aid. He should have opened up for himself so he could be helped, to let people be with him in coping with his loss.

It is probably a normal psychological standard towards coping with something like that, as I do recall, it is considered "Anger displacement". Although this is not an accurate definition towards his coping with such losses, it could most probably mean that he was frustrated with such losses, and in a manner, had probably wanted others to feel what he was going through by abusing others. Although his approach was not the best one, that is how he hoped to get pity. But what he had done, unfortunately, was push all those who trusted and cared for him away from him. Isolating himself in his own copings of such a loss. He had declined the support he was offered.

But due to the fact that he had physically, and psychologically abused others, he had lost his supposed reputation towards other people who cared for him. Thus causing him to be fought back against when he had decided to take it too far on others. His actions had caused you to snap and to finally show what would happen if people would abuse others. It generally was not you who was at fault at the incident, due to the fact that he had taken it too far, and began mentioning your family members over a situation he was in.

He had lost a sense of morality, he had lost his empathy of others, since he was at a very low point of his life. It was not his fault that he was in the middle of a situation that he was not in control of. But he had no right whatsoever to approach it in a manner to which will lead to more harm in people. Instead of fixing the issue, and try his best to move on and be more accepting, and as well as try to carry on an honorable legacy of his father by focusing on his studies, and being kind to others, he instead simply abused others, he left a bigger hole than what was created.

However, when you have done your justice, or when you have beaten him, it was best to instead try to make an approach to which could help him. It would have been best to instead of ignoring him, you could have tried to help him cope with it. It was best to be by his side, rather than ignoring him or beating him like that. And at no point whatsoever do I think it is righteous to say this story on the internet like that. It would show that you had an attitude to him similar to the attitude he had to you. But you have done what you could to teach him the manners of courtesy, there was nothing else you could have done. :c

Also, I don't recall schools being animals and consisting of tails. But I do know that a lot of stories, or should I say, "Tales" have occurred in schools all over the world. ;3

Nice! And Nirmit, you went to a different school?

 

[Scott]

I honestly don't know whether fighting was the best solution, but at least he no longer bothers you.

 

[SonicSplit]

I sort of feel bad for this guy but don't at the same time. His dad died but he kind of acted a little...out of hand. Your actions were self defense but might be slightly harsh.