Relationship Advice #2 (O Lord)

[MCGamerzism]

Hey Y'all,

So I need a bit of advice, I've made a similar thread like this before and I got a lot of replies like why would you ask the MCG community this, ill clean that up now, you never know what advice is around, I've been given some of the best advice from these forums ^_^

So here it goes. There's this girl at my school, she's SOOO FIT AND PRETTY and all the boys like her, it turns out a quiet kid like me, seemed to be the chosen one for this girl. So we had some romance for 3 weeks, but ever since I gave her the card,
It seems to a does down, which I quite like be aide I dot like getting attention. However, now she doesn't even look at me, she ignores me, it's almost like ik invisible. She's playing with my mind, and I don't like it. I'm feel like a fly trapped in a web.

Why do I feel like this. Why is she blanking me? I find it really rude, and I'm starting to ignore it and get on with my real life. It just bugs me a bit? Any advice to show her I don't care/get her to like me again. Well, not that but to say hi.

Sorry if that's a little strange, I'm new in relationships (not including food)

 

[TomahawkGoesChop]

Oh god, why do English people have such complex relationships ;-;

 

[Blazerboy | Noah]

i have a hard time understanding portions of this, if it doesn't bother you can you fix your spelling? also, what do you mean by giving her the card?

 

[MCGamerzism]

Oh god, why do English people have such complex relationships ;-;

We're "Too" Hot

i have a hard time understanding portions of this, if it doesn't bother you can you fix your spelling? also, what do you mean by giving her the card?

my spelling? Excuse me? I'm not going into detail about the card, all I'm gonna say is I made her one and then my friends gave it to her, and she took it home and now her mum calls me boyfriend when she doesn't Even know
Me xD complicated ik I get too sidetracked when writing this and it's 00:00

 

[Blazerboy | Noah]

We're "Too" Hot

my spelling? Excuse me? I'm not going into detail about the card, all I'm gonna say is I made her one and then my friends gave it to her, and she took it home and now her mum calls me boyfriend when she doesn't Even know
Me xD complicated ik I get too sidetracked when writing this and it's 00:00

that's what i meant, yes the card. i thought you meant- yeah.
anyway i'd say you have two options - 1) be outright and direct and ask her what's up, do you still like me? you haven't talked to me at all! or 2) forget about her and just move on, if you think that she's really not into you and you'd rather just move on and you don't want to try saving the relationship.

reference - the one girlfriend i've had.

 

[WilloWizard]

The only advice to dealing with girls.
Step 1 - Your room is your new sanctuary, stay in there any chance you get.
Step 2 - Do something you enjoy in your sanctuary, e.g. MCSG or something video-game related.
Step 3 - You have officially forgotten about this girl and will never care again.
Yeahhh... Bad advice.

Basically, all I'm trying to say is forget about here and move on.

 

[Diar]

No. Don't just forget and move on. Maybe something has happened with her home life.. a relative has died, somebody she is close to is in the hospital, whatever, and she's trying to deal with it by avoiding people.

The only opportunities that you miss out on, are the opportunities that you don't take. Just straight up ask her why she hasn't been talking to you. You get to clear your mind, and the only possible results are that you begin talking to her again, or you don't and you get to move on.

 

[CrystalKnowledge]

Don't push her on it and don't give her a hard time. You're not the first guy this has happened to, but if you get after or say "Why don't you talk to me, etc." she's going to think you're desperate and that will turn her off even more.

If this happened directly after the "card" (and you won't say what it said) odds are you came off way too strong. Girls tend not to like when guys come off really strong on them really fast, it can creep them out. Like you said as well, it sounded like she was quite "out of your league" if you will, so don't beat yourself up over it. There will be more women.

From what it sounds like as well you two had nothing in common, at least not that I detected. The only thing you told us about her was that she was "Fit and Pretty", and while that's great you're going to learn in this lifetime that a personality that meshes with yours is nearly as important as looks.

 

[le quack]

I'm good without a girl tbh. Me and my Ex dated for 9 months and I've been single for 3 years now xD I really don't mind

 

[MCGamerzism]

I'm good without a girl tbh. Me and my Ex dated for 9 months and I've been single for 3 years now xD I really don't mind

aha yeah I love been single too

Don't push her on it and don't give her a hard time. You're not the first guy this has happened to, but if you get after or say "Why don't you talk to me, etc." she's going to think you're desperate and that will turn her off even more.

If this happened directly after the "card" (and you won't say what it said) odds are you came off way too strong. Girls tend not to like when guys come off really strong on them really fast, it can creep them out. Like you said as well, it sounded like she was quite "out of your league" if you will, so don't beat yourself up over it. There will be more women.

From what it sounds like as well you two had nothing in common, at least not that I detected. The only thing you told us about her was that she was "Fit and Pretty", and while that's great you're going to learn in this lifetime that a personality that meshes with yours is nearly as important as looks.

True, it'll turn her off

No. Don't just forget and move on. Maybe something has happened with her home life.. a relative has died, somebody she is close to is in the hospital, whatever, and she's trying to deal with it by avoiding people.

The only opportunities that you miss out on, are the opportunities that you don't take. Just straight up ask her why she hasn't been talking to you. You get to clear your mind, and the only possible results are that you begin talking to her again, or you don't and you get to move on.

I doubt a relative is died/dying, she still looks confident and around her friends, in some cases, too over confident. Anyways I'm done with it...its complicated

 

[Jimmy | Intelligent]

I'm good without a girl tbh. Me and my Ex dated for 9 months and I've been single for 3 years now xD I really don't mind

I'll tell your PC that you don't consider it in a relationship with you, She was excited about your 3 year anniversary.

 

[TotalyNotHawk62]

Pimpin ain't ez, but someone has to do it.