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AlgerWaterlow

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While there are truths to this video and others like it, they still miss something within me. Why can't my online friends be considered real friends I care about and like? I am emotionally invested in this place and it's something that brings joy to my life. Just because someone uses electronics and has friends they may never meet in person doesn't mean they are a "slave to society" or something. Moderation is the key; I love hanging out on MCSG, but I love hanging out with my real friends and doing real life stuff. If all you do is stare at screens then you'll miss out on opportunities, but if you're so concentrated on not doing anything electronic you'll miss opportunities of fun and friendship as well.
You and I have clearly watched Tomahawk's videos before with all the why/why not questions. :p

I agree that I'd like to be online more. Heck, I'd like to do Youtube full-time. My parents' favorite expression "don't quit your day job" is still prominent in my mind. They've advised me to not do that unless I actually am making a good portion of my income online - which I'd want to do through web design/development as Youtube doesn't pay that much and I do that for funsicles anyway.

The reason you and I are attracted to online friends is that they bring in fresh perspectives that your RL friends and family may not notice or think it rude to bring up directly to you.
 

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You and I have clearly watched Tomahawk's videos before with all the why/why not questions. :p

I agree that I'd like to be online more. Heck, I'd like to do Youtube full-time. My parents' favorite expression "don't quit your day job" is still prominent in my mind. They've advised me to not do that unless I actually am making a good portion of my income online - which I'd want to do through web design/development as Youtube doesn't pay that much and I do that for funsicles anyway.

The reason you and I are attracted to online friends is that they bring in fresh perspectives that your RL friends and family may not notice or think it rude to bring up directly to you.
Actually, I wouldn't even say I'm online as much as some people here. I love both real life and virtual friends and activities, I just dislike when people diminish the value of one or the other.
 

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Yeah, I know this thread was made a little while ago, but it's still relevant and not a necro.

That video makes some great points, I must admit. It highlights issues within present-time society. However, some people don't consider them issues, and some people even go so far as to feel like they're a part of life because of how much they've been incorporated with everyday life. Large companies are pushing for more online resources, more automated systems, larger databases, more sales. It all revolves around people using more technology. It's being encouraged by those in power.

Okay, I have to say, I'm torn between loving and hating this video. I completely, entirely agree with it... but at the same time, it's basically rejecting and denouncing my way of life. I know that sounds bad, but I've let my life revolve around technology. MCSG Forums, League of Legends, TeamSpeak, etc. etc. etc.
Social media. What is social media? Media that revolves around your friends? That's how I put it. Your feed is dictated by your interests and those of your friends.
Wikipedia said:
Social media is the social interaction among people in which they create, share or exchange information and ideas in virtual communities and networks.[1]Andreas Kaplan and Michael Haenlein define social media as "a group of Internet-based applications that build on the ideological and technological foundations of Web 2.0, and that allow the creation and exchange of user-generated content."[2] Furthermore, social media depend on mobile and web-based technologies to create highly interactive platforms through which individuals and communities share, co-create, discuss, and modify user-generated content. They introduce substantial and pervasive changes to communication between organizations, communities, and individuals. -http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_media
What are friends? I think they're someone who you can joke around with, have fun, cry on their shoulders if you have to. Someone that will be there for you when you need it, but also will force you to grow up and stand up on your own when you need to.
Google said:
a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations.
Synonyms: companion, soul mate, intimate, confidante, confidant, familiar, alter ego, second self, playmate, playfellow, classmate, schoolmate,workmate
Does that mean that someone you've never seen in real life cannot be your friend? Does that say that just because you don't know each other IRL, that you can't have a relationship? No! No, no, no. I brought two people together (they now both hate me) and they found out that they live like 20 minutes apart from each other, and they're now in a relationship, in the romantic sense. I've met people who have been my friend for over a year. We may not talk to each other as often as once before, but we still count each other as friends, and I would trust that they would help me if I needed it just as much as an IRL friend would.



Oh, uhm, but... this is all coming from a guy who has 0 IRL friends. :3 So I am a bit biased.
 

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The last part of my signature is what I believe in when using the internet.
 

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My Mom used this video to guilt trip me :c I have to say it worked a little.
 

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