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Mother: Clean your room!
Child: Get out! You're not the boss of me!
Mother: Clean it now! It's a mess, you can't live in this!
Child: I hate you, get out of my life!
*slams door on her face*
Mother remembers her children's words... "get out of my life...out of my life...my life"
No no no. This is not okay. I see this too much. Us teenagers disrespect our parents, I'm not saying we all do, but it does happen. We lose our temper and all that we've kept in lashes out. What you think you said may have seemed little, but this takes a huge toll on the people who have tried raising you in life for the past years.
When this happens, parents feel like crap. They really do, they feel like what they have been trying to do for a good part of their life is really going to waste and that they're not doing it correctly. You can't have them feel that way. Imagine if you were in their position. Raising children is a real challenge, from birth until they go off to college. If they're going out of their way to make you happy, I suggest you do the same.
Even if you don't want to do the big things in your life and go out of your way to make these people happy, just do the little things. When you wake up in the morning and see them, tell them you love them or just give them a hug. That's what I do, and it seems my parents appreciate it.
As many of you know I'm an avid 4chan visitor. There was a time where I came up onto a feels thread, this is where people post things to make people feel bad or try and experience pain others are feeling, and someone posted some nostalgia from a past 4chan thread back in 2012 when I didn't even know the website existed. What was said here really hurt, but it really showed me that some kids who are out there really love their parents and they try their hardest to make them happy. Here it is:
Brought a tear to my eye. It really did. Although you can't trust that this has happened, you can still at least imagine the situation happening. When you read it yourself, you kind of put this all into your head and you imagine if this was you and your father. It hurts. It really does. But look at that line there that says ">He smiles the happiest smile I have seen in years"
Now here comes the question I ask all of you who say you hate your parents, what if you did this for your parents? What if you made your parents happy for the first in your eyes, and you finally exchanged that feeling of love?
A human cannot live without love from someone. The people who will give it to you the most are your parents. And you know, sad to say here but some people may not have biological parents. It could be their grandmothers and grandfathers, uncles and aunts, etc. It could even be a mother and mother or father and father. Hell, a lot of times it's just one mother or one father. Whoever it is, you have to show them that you love them.
I have heard people here call their mothers and fathers w****s, b****s, s***s, f*****s, etc. If you've experienced that at the same time as me, then you've seen me flip. You should not be mad at the people who have brought you into this world, and have done all they can to raise you. They go to work everyday, they try and make money everyday, just to put food in your mouths.
Now I know, if you are experiencing child abuse from one or more of your parents then you have no right to love them, because they're not being the parents you're supposed to have. Or if they've done something illegal and ended up in jail, they're not showing you the brightest path. But if you're not experiencing this then you don't have a great reason to hate your parents.
Just please, after you read this, I hope I can change what you think about your parents and give them more respect if you haven't in the past... and before I end this thread let's just imagine a different scenario.
Mother: Clean your room!
Child: Will get right to it mom!
Mother: Thank you.
*Smiles and starts to leave the room*
Child: Wait mom...
Mother: Yes?
Child: ...I love you
Mother: I love you too.
*Leaves the room with a smile that can light up the darkest areas of the world*
Child: Get out! You're not the boss of me!
Mother: Clean it now! It's a mess, you can't live in this!
Child: I hate you, get out of my life!
*slams door on her face*
Mother remembers her children's words... "get out of my life...out of my life...my life"
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No no no. This is not okay. I see this too much. Us teenagers disrespect our parents, I'm not saying we all do, but it does happen. We lose our temper and all that we've kept in lashes out. What you think you said may have seemed little, but this takes a huge toll on the people who have tried raising you in life for the past years.
When this happens, parents feel like crap. They really do, they feel like what they have been trying to do for a good part of their life is really going to waste and that they're not doing it correctly. You can't have them feel that way. Imagine if you were in their position. Raising children is a real challenge, from birth until they go off to college. If they're going out of their way to make you happy, I suggest you do the same.
Even if you don't want to do the big things in your life and go out of your way to make these people happy, just do the little things. When you wake up in the morning and see them, tell them you love them or just give them a hug. That's what I do, and it seems my parents appreciate it.
As many of you know I'm an avid 4chan visitor. There was a time where I came up onto a feels thread, this is where people post things to make people feel bad or try and experience pain others are feeling, and someone posted some nostalgia from a past 4chan thread back in 2012 when I didn't even know the website existed. What was said here really hurt, but it really showed me that some kids who are out there really love their parents and they try their hardest to make them happy. Here it is:
Now here comes the question I ask all of you who say you hate your parents, what if you did this for your parents? What if you made your parents happy for the first in your eyes, and you finally exchanged that feeling of love?
A human cannot live without love from someone. The people who will give it to you the most are your parents. And you know, sad to say here but some people may not have biological parents. It could be their grandmothers and grandfathers, uncles and aunts, etc. It could even be a mother and mother or father and father. Hell, a lot of times it's just one mother or one father. Whoever it is, you have to show them that you love them.
I have heard people here call their mothers and fathers w****s, b****s, s***s, f*****s, etc. If you've experienced that at the same time as me, then you've seen me flip. You should not be mad at the people who have brought you into this world, and have done all they can to raise you. They go to work everyday, they try and make money everyday, just to put food in your mouths.
Now I know, if you are experiencing child abuse from one or more of your parents then you have no right to love them, because they're not being the parents you're supposed to have. Or if they've done something illegal and ended up in jail, they're not showing you the brightest path. But if you're not experiencing this then you don't have a great reason to hate your parents.
Just please, after you read this, I hope I can change what you think about your parents and give them more respect if you haven't in the past... and before I end this thread let's just imagine a different scenario.
---
Mother: Clean your room!
Child: Will get right to it mom!
Mother: Thank you.
*Smiles and starts to leave the room*
Child: Wait mom...
Mother: Yes?
Child: ...I love you
Mother: I love you too.
*Leaves the room with a smile that can light up the darkest areas of the world*
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Real talk,
Andreas
TL;DR? Nope. Read the whole thing.Andreas
